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   Ursula
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   So we drop ss off after a relatively nice visitation weekend, and he starts up his stuff about not wanting to live with BM, hanging on Dh, and basically throwing a separation anxiety tantrum. BM is just feeling sorry for herself these days now that her boy toy woke up and left her sorry butt, so all she could do was complain that
   " oooo no one wants to live with me anymore waaaaaa" barf! and then she went on to tell us that SS tried to suffocate her the other night. Apparently she lets him sleep in her bed now, ( o that wont be the least bit damaging) and she woke to find him covering her mouth with his hands. hahahahahah. Ok, so once Dh and I stopped laughing about it, I was like, hey, she lets him watch horror movies, and play adult rated video games, so what to do you want? I'm so sick of this. If you dont allow your children to have some innocence and have a childhood free of mature worries and what not, you cant expect them to grow up to be exactly normal.As far as I know, the beast has been letting ss watch horror movies since he was born. craaaaazy woman... I just cant believe she thinks she is raising him to be "cool" and ignoring the facts of what happens to children who grow up like that, and how desensitized they get. She refuses to let ss live with us, cus she wants her paycheck, and ss is trying more and different things every time we see him to try to live with us, so I am now wondering if she is going to end up one of those parents who is killed in cold blood by her 10 year old son. I'm certainly not in favor of that, as much as I cant stand her, because then the monster she is creating will be with us 24/7...Anyone have thoughts on this?

   "Jesus was a stepchild too."

   Posted 2 years ago #
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   wickedstep
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   Ha I could imagine waking up to my Skids hovering over me with a ax lol. You just never know with the video games out there today. I think you are right to be worried about that. http://www.theadvertiser.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080715/OPINION01/807150302 O BTW I know someone who got in trouble for letting their 5 & 7 year old sleep in their bed. In a court of law I believe they would consider this inappropriate contact with a child. It's extremely damaging to let a child of that age sleep in the parents bed. Especially if they had previously been sleeping alone. It sound like the BM and Child both need some counseling. I know you can't do anything about the BM , but perhaps you could talk to Dh about getting DSS into therapy?

   "Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is the probable reason why so few engage in it."

   Posted 2 years ago #

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